How To Avoid Choking On Politics At Thanksgiving Dinner

By Anser Hassan

SACRAMENTO (CBS13) —  With the elections only just over, politics will likely be on the menu at Thanksgiving dinner.

"That's not a question, that's an expectation," Alicia Davenport who lives in Sacramento area.

After more than a year of political squabbling, a new national poll finds that more than 30 percent of Americans are stressed out about talking politics at Thanksgiving. And while it may be tough to go cold turkey on this year's elections, there are ways to enjoy dinner and avoid the political sideshow.

For starters, if the party does turn to politics, as a host, don't be afraid to set some ground rules, such as what topics are open for debate. If they debates gets heated – change it. Or try setting time limits, even if just to keep conversations short.

"Our family, we have differences, it'll probably be a short conversion," said Kevin Emmanuel of Chico.

And if you're a guest, some consultants suggest to come with just a few talking points and even alternative topics outside the political realm. Also, identify the people who are your triggers and try to avoid them.

"Our family shares different ideas. And I feel like if we start talking about that, it will probably not be a good ending!" said Vladimir Petroskin of Sacramento.

But for some, Thanksgiving dinner might be the perfect time for the family to come together to discuss important political topics from this year's election.

"It'll affect our immediate family. Democrats and Republicans have different views. So, that's something that's important for us to talk about," said Davenport.

But even then, don't take the bait! Experts say you don't have to engage in every topic. And remember, Thanksgiving dinner is not the place to solve all political differences. Save the heated debate for another time.

If politics really get out of hand, you can always use food as a distraction. And maybe have some really good music cued!